After 30 years of marriage, we’ve learned that most conflicts don’t break a relationship… reactivity does. These phrases have helped us stay connected, soften our tone, and protect our marriage in the moments that feel the hardest. Because when you choose safety over defensiveness, when you choose humility over ego, and when you keep Christ at the center… the wounds lose their power. This is how couples remove the baggage holding them back and move from vows to victory. 🤍 #marriagetok #Premarit